Bi College Jocks Are You Out There? I am a bi college student who loves sports and works out all the time ect.
Are there any other bi/gay jocks in college out there?
I feel like every athletic guy at my university is straight. Makes me feel a lil lonely lol. |
All those gay/bi college jocks are in the closet. It's going to be very hard to find one
unless you come out and expose yourself. You don't have to a sign on you're forehead that says that you're bi, just when someone asks you about dating let them know you're bi.
Those who are in the closet will come you, and you won't even have to move a finger. |
Which college has gay athletic types, or the hottest gay student body? I've recently come out, and even decided on transferring to another college. All of my ex-girlfiends go there-and I'm tired of them telling me, "That I'm not gay, because I don't look it!"
I'm looking for those all american type of guys, athletes, jocks, and gay but are sure of themselves. Here are several jock colleges, but are they gay friendly colleges?
1. Ohio State
2. University of Texas-Austin
3. Penn State
4. University of Pittsburgh
5. University of Miami
6. University of California-Santa Barbara |
| The Ohio State University in Columbus and the University of Texas in Austin. |
Why do a lot of gay teens say that frat boys are homophobes? It's different for me. Most jocks around me are actually gay-friendly. In fact, they are more tolerant than nerdy-*** guys. Jocks feel very comfortable around me. Yesterday I was at a community college practicing wrestling and I told someone that I'm gay. He just said, "you look pretty straight and have a deep voice." He didn't run away or anything. Why do I see tolerance from these guys, but other American teens would say they are complete homophobes? I'm from SoCal. |
| Its a stereotype of jocks or 'frat boys', which I think might have a little basis to it. You also have to consider where you are from SoCal... Go to any Midwestern or Southern state and I'm sure that it wont be as gay friendly. Like others said you are a jock too so they don't see you as stereotypical gay. |
Why do all the hot women of college age in America ? ...like only men that are typical uneducated jock gay muscle looking types or a hardcore drug addict.
In other places in the world, especially in Europe(not-UK), hot women like men(clean/decen/cute looking) that are ambitious, worldly, well traveled, passionate, chivalrous, cultural and educated. But men like this in America, are considered a sexual turn off. |
I'm 1/2 Russian. I was born in St. Petersburg, moved to the States when I was 2 years old. I went back to serve in the Army when I was 18 (I was still a Russian citizen technically). They LOVE American men. Excuse my English, but I never laid more in my life. And I, for all intents and purposes was an American to them. Same situation when I visited Brazil two years back, women basically fall over with their legs spread when you tell them you're from the states.
Women don't really like metrosexual men, no matter what country they are from. |
Are Emo guys necessarily gay? or can they be only emo but not gay?
I ask this since i once wrote something on my facebook profile that a stupid friend of mine thought was emo and asked me if i was gay. just like that out of the blue. i was like WTF why u say that
he said cuz u write emo stuff all the time. and emo is gay.
im not emo btw im a college jock with feelings. definitely not gay. |
Emo is a style. Just because the style is sometimes seen as a little camp doesn't mean at all that emo's are gay. Tell your friend he's a homophobic asshole.
=)
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Is he gay or bi? Ok its the age old question of is he gay-he being one of my really good friends that ive been crushing on for the past two years. My friends think he may be gay or bi because of:
-hes said of being a jock or gay stereotype, hed be gay
-he has a fem-ish walk
-he said hes the gayest straight guy i would ever meet
-hes looked me in the eyes six times saying if i was gay, he wouldnt care [i finally came out to him and he was cool with it and smiled and laughed; when i asked him if he was SURE he was ok with it, he just smiled and said dont worry]
-my friends say we flirt at lunch sometimes
-i could have sworn ive seen him looking at me in the lockerroom
-hes invited me to see him in his swimteam speedo [not sure if he was guyding]
-he invited me to some of his meets
-hes admitted to being able to be in a gay relationship and that if he was he would be the guy
-he said that he wouldnt mind a gay college room mate
he might not be bc he liked this one girl but got put in the friendzone |
My advice is never assume he is gay unless he tell you personally. Perhaps you can ask him whether he is one when the situation is in a tense mood and show him a serious look when you ask.
I had a classmate who I initially thought he was gay as he used to tickle me and slide his fingers across my back when nobody was looking. I also exchanged eye-contact with him and he smile back at me. There was once he bought a sausage and told me it look big and tough and juicy. He rarely comment about girls but he did mention about rubbing his hand up a guy's legs to the crotch.
He always laughed in a effeminate way and he really have the gay look. When I finally want to qualify with him on his sexual orientation he didn't reply immediately. He only told me he is straight personally after a few days later. Now he even suspect me is gay and I'm in love with him. I'm quite shocked when he shared with one of my other classmate about my action on constant messaging him and question on his sexual orientation. He show him the messages I sent him which aroused their suspicious that I'm gay. Luckily I already prepared for a very good explanation for my actions and they really believe it thus I'm still in the closet.
Come to think of it perhaps he suspected me is gay so he use his handsome look and gayish behavior to test me out. He is just suck and I guess we are friend no more.
Thankfully I didn't confess to him and again never make any assumption unless he told you personally that he is gay. |
19 y/o gay male and needs help!? Hello everyone, I'm glad we can be so open here. I am 19 y/o male and gay. How do i know how to find the right guy? what are things i should look for in a guy...Also, I am 6'0 and 220lbs..I am kind of big for my height but i am very athletic and had college scholarships for track and also football..I know what your thinking, you dont find many gay jocks...do you think other gay guys will judge me cuz of my weight? |
| Dude what a good question... I am in a similar boat... I am pretty solid myself... not so much a gut, but definantly thick. I have a football linemans build! I find that when I go out, I get hit on by guys that consider me like a big teddy bear or I don't get hit on at all... I think that finding a bf among guys is difficult in that we are all guys and the physical has a lot of pull on our attraction. In fact I am sure (like me) a lot of guys may find you attractive and you probably don't find them... just keep looking and remember that its not all physical... in the long run, personnality and spirit trumps all. I am not suggesting you date down, but rather there is a perfect match out there that will like you for both. So shake the haters off and keep looking... |
Everyone thinks he's gay. How can I deal with this? Everyone around me believes that either the guy who I'm involved with now is completely homosexual or is pretending that he might be so that I'll trust him more and so that it'll be easier for him to get in with me. When I first met him I thought he was homosexual because he reminds me of myself. I have a Valley Girl voice and I'm a really feminine woman...so is he. He has the body of a very masculine man but he's just really effimine.
He switches a lot and it becomes confusing because when it's just him and his friends they all talk like your typical college jocks. No girly voices at all but once us girls come around they get so sensitive and their voices change and it's just weird. I've even heard them correct their voices back to sounding girly so we couldn't hear them.
Being that he does this I don't know if he's gay or pretending to be gayish to get closer to girls or what but it's all so confusing. I've asked him but he says he just likes girls so I don't know what else to say. |
| I think he may just be confused. As for your friends telling you that he is just pretending to be straight so he can "get it in" uhm think about it that's stupid advice honey. gay guys aren't interested in getting laid by a girl. Maybe he is just really confused about things. What did he mean by he just likes girls? Perhaps you could ask him if he just likes hanging out with girls, like if he gets along with them better. You should jokingly make a comment about how a gal pal of yours thinks he might be gay. Try to pick something up off his reaction to that. Good Luck Doll |
What's up with teenage gay guys and Abercrombie/Hollister/etc.? I know a LOT of teenagers wear clothes from those stores (especially jocks and preps), but a lot of gay guys seem to take it to another level. All the out-of-the-closet gay guys at my high school and college seemed to wear outfits composed of articles from solely the above named stores.
In my opinion, that type of clothing looks best on muscle-y athletic types, not skinny fem. gay guys...I ain't hatin', I'm just wondering what the appeal is? |
| Thats what i wear and to tell you the truth i get compliments everyday! So i guess i do look better than some muscle guys dont I! :)) And also i like my clothe to be tight! lol |
Why do all hot girls in America go only for muscular, jocks tall men with other gay features, but find..? regular looking intelligent, worldy, respectful, sophisticated and nice males as ugly or bad guys ?
And why do hot girls in America like these jock tall men when they always cheat with girls or even men in many cases...lol.
In America, I see college girls go for these type of men.
Is it cause most American mothers are not smart and taught their daughters to be like this or is mtv like some standard for women in America ?
I am talking about hot girls with similar faces and bodies like megan fox or girls that look like gossip girl.
In Europe and Asia, hot girls( both more pretty than american) care alot about character of a man compared to the american girls, but American girls care only about looks. Oh and I care about the inside of a girl too. |
| I personally don't go for that kind of guy at all. But yes a lot of girls here do, and that is just their own preference of what kind of guy they like. It doesn't mean every single American girl feels that way. |