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My moms a drunk and i think she has cancer :(? Ok so my mom gets drunk like 4 times a week and she smokes all the time and now she has this spot on her neck(and shes getting a second opinion from another doctor) but someone she knows had a spot and their doctor said it was nothing and now that lady has stage 4 limphoma :( i keep telling my mom to take care of herself but she DOESNT ******* LISTEN! she also had stage 0 breast cancer once that she got removed and was fine. | | Im sorry your mum is drunk this must be hard for you. Ask your mum to do this for you because you love and care for her. learn from your mum mistakes do not be like her | What do I do I'm so fed up with my ******* life? My mom got drunk tonight and now I got in a huge fight with her and I'm slamming walls and **** and I'm so ******* stressed besides that, I'm dealing with a VERY hard breakup on me and I feel like running away. I cannot take this anymore. I'm seriously about to run away. I need some advice I cannot take it anymore I'm so close to running away you don't even know. Help :( | | Running away won't solve anything - it will just make things harder for you. Sorry about your mom. That stinks when adults don't act like adults. Go in your room, shut the door, and don't have some time by yourself. Pick up a book or turn on the tv. Anything to take your mind off the situation at hand. Maybe try to talk to your mom when she is sober and the effect it has on you. Breakups stink. Hang in there, and be strong. This too shall pass. | I hate my ******* mom help me!!!!!!!!!!? My mom is a Freak.She asked me to call her at 11:00 so she can order pizza for me.Because there is no food here.So I called and I told her to call and I nasked for a supreme and she starts yelling at me"Brian I have to go you know I don't have that much money".Now i have no ******* clue how much a supreme cost,and she was yelling at me over something stupid my sisiters were doing this morning but she took it out on me,And she apologized and she statred yelling over the supreme thing again over the phone and i said what the f... I didn't say the whole thing and i hung up and she calls back brian what did u say and i was like mom not now and she starts this lame *** ******* speech about brian u need me for stuff u treat me with respect and i was like mom what r u talking about are u drunk and she starts this whole ******* thing about i'm not ordering pizza for you anymore then i hung up and afeterwards i called her back and she goes on about brian i;m sick of arguing with you and i'm like i wasn't even arguing with you and she gets all yes you were i'm at work i dont need this now and i was like ur the one who called back to argue in the first place and she goes i'm not ordering pizza for you until you treat me with respect and i'm like mom i didn't ebven do anything to you in the first palce then she apologizes i smash the phone and hang up on her and i cdall her back on my ecll phone and aplogize but i only did it for the pizza and i'm still pissed off at her wtf is her problem she is 46 years old no ******* husband and she keeps nagging at me about stupid **** help me i need advice | | you and your mom are so dramatic... don't worry it we all have to put up with them. | AHH my moms got a new flippin boyfriend. HELP!? This ******* sucks. I'm ******* pissed.
She dated the same guy for like what, the past 4 years-ish. On and off. And i loved him, but he really screwed up, and i started hating him in the past year. They broke up about 3 weeks ago, which was a relief for me.
Before she met him she had a cycle: drink, men, drink & more men.
The countless number of men she brought home to two YOUNG guyren was amazing. It happened ever since my parents separated, when i was 3 months old.
And they always stayed over....
Shes already got a new bf. And I have to meet him tomorrow night.
She's fell back into her drinking and men cycle. She just started sobering up a couple months ago.
I was almost rapped by one of the guys she brought home, my brother beat the **** out of him, my mom left him home with my brother and I. I was only 12. He was drunk, and my mom was drunk, but went out driving to the liquor store (shes a alcoholic)
And now theres a new guy. I might be over reacting, but it feels like my worlds coming to an end again. I can't do this, my brothers moved out due to my moms drinking and I just can't do it alone.
I don't know what to do, i'm scared as hell, and i really feel like popping some pills just to calm myself down, although i know thats not the right answer.
Am i over reacting? Chances are he'll just be another one nighter, or a 1 month relationship and resulting in the police being called again. (I can't tell you how much **** is on my record with dyfs and guy services)
What should i do? I'm really flipping out.... | | No , you're not over reacting one bit. You have every right to react this way especially after everything . I'm pretty sure other things happened that you want to keep out of this. But this is what i think you should do . When you're mother is sober one day or something, talk to her and tell her how you feel . You have to let it out and tell her before something bad happens to you or her [i.e rape] . I know it doesn't sound like something good to do or you've tried it before but maybe you could use a little more in it. Tell her how one almost rapped you and make her feel shitty. If your brothers are old enough, ask them if you could move in with them because well its not healthy for you to be in that situation and they know what it's like. Tell her that you cant stand living with her like this and that you're going to move out. If she tries to get all motherly like and tell you that you cant, give her that really special finger and tell her to save her sh*t for some other girl. Don't you have family members that will take you in if your brother(s) cant? You should. If things are that bad, I would even consider moving in with a friend. You're situation is pretty bad and well I would act on it as soon as possible. I had a friend who was the same way but instead of rape , the guy would hit her and throw her around the room when he got really drunk. Some guys would touch her but not rape her. One day she was telling me and I got mad and I went to her house and she had to hold me back from not hitting her mother. You could see the bruises on her and it was disgusting. I gave her advice and one day, she surprised me telling me that she was moving in with her grandmother because she just let it all out with her mother and well her mother couldn't say anything because she didn't have the right to stop her. Her mother actually started going to rehab for a week but then caught back up with herself and well she hasn't talked to her mother since. This happened when we were 12 and now she's 15 and im turning 15 in like 2 weeks. Young I know but I think that's what makes it worst; she was young as hell. But anyways , point blank my advice is to just TELL HER and MOVE OUT. My friend was really messed up , but not only was she affected but so were her close friends and family. Don't take pills just LEAVE as soon as possible ; it's hard because she is your mother but you have to do it. | I need help, my brother is 15 year's old and getting drunk,? My brother is 15 years old, he is always getting drunk, he drinks bacardy silver, and when he wants alchol he'll get into my mom's vodca. and drinks like 2 or 3 of her beers and says they fell out of the fridge, well see she buys the alchol for her, and he drinks it withouther noing, but my mom does by him bacardie silver and boonies farm wine sometimes, he gets ******* drunk. calls his friends ( his friends that are girls ) and trys to show off, now i dont no what to do, i dont want to call a 800 number cuz i have to many animals, and i love them all, and if my mom would get put in jail for this wat goin to happen to my animals, and me, and my animal are my life nobody is goin to take my babys away from me, but i dont no what to do, she no's that he drinks the bacardy silver and boonies farm but not the vodca and beer, its starting to piss me off, i was about to call the police 2mins ago but im afraid that something would happen to my animals, also i just caught him a min ago messing with the vodca, he was on the phone saying baby im just haven some fun mixing vodca, if i tell my mom she will get pissed yell at him, and i seriously just dont want that now, WHAT AM I SUPPOST TO DO ABOUT THIS? | well that is a bad problem.
i would sit down with him and talk to him how bad it is for a 15 year old. he could really damage his health. i can say he is addicted to it and tell him that you cant see your own brother get drunk at that age. give him good reasons why it is bad. he could go to jail, and that is every ones fear. or get your mom to knock some sense into him. or tell your mom to stop buying that stuff, or if she does buy it tell her to hide it where he cant find it. | My Mom Is Drunk And i need help? okay so my mom is drunk bad laying on my floor she stood up went to my athroom fell in my bathtub and took her ******* pants off laying on the couch listen my mom has a problem she has been dealing with for 35 years we can't help her what do i do she smokes and im afraid she will burn our house down! )'; Help Me im only 13 | | Call 911 | How can I get my mom to stop drinking? My mom drinks wine a few times a week. Her brain acts different and I hate it. She acts like a totally different person. Right now, she's in the hospital screaming and vomiting and I'm ******* scared shitless. I'm not sure if it's the wine doing it, though. She's overweight as well. I'm sitting here shitting my pants. What can I do? I don't want to lose her. | | I grew up in an alcoholic family as well and man was it hard. The thing that I learn in adulthood was that you cannot change someone else until they want to change. I think that what you need to do is contact a close relative and see if you can stay with them until your mom is release or other things happen. You do not need to see your mother go through this. I wish you all the best. | My moms a alcoholic and it's getting worse? I'm only 15. I dont think I should have to deal with my own mom every night getting drunk and keeping me up too 12 at night. Lately, my mom is getting bigger bottles. She normally gets small bottles, and only drinks one a night but it's getting worse. She went ******* berzerk one night when I didnt give her the other half of her drink (which she said at least 4 times before that she didn't want) I ran in my room and locked the door and sat behind the door while she slammed herself into it and made dents in it. It lasted about an hour and I was scared to death. That happened only last week. Another time is when I had my friend sleeping over (this was a few eyars ago) and my mom was making stew (soup) and she was doing it drunk. Then I noticed she was walking back and forth to the kitchen to the bathroom so I got up and there was pools of blood everywhere. She cut her finger off while cutting the carrots. Then she had to go to th E.R. My parents are devoiced (has bin for about 7 years) and she had to drive by herself (I was so scared I didn't think about calling someone to help) so me and my friend got into the her car and drove away. We live about 45 min from a hospital and at night. We almost crashed a number of times. I dont know why me and my friend went, but we thought we could keep her from driving off the road (which we did). Anyway, how can I get my mom to stop drinking so much every night? She doesn't have health ensurence so she can't go to rehab. Do you know what I can do? I dread when it becomes night time and she takes her first shot. I know whats comeing and I hate it. She starts at 7 so its way to early to go to bed. Help? :( | i'm 14 and my moms been an alcoholic since i can remember(probably before i was even born)
with my personal experience you can talk to her about it, express your feelings on the matter and tell her you want her to stop
that only works in some situations they have to want to stop themselves for it to work though
because trust me on this is she doesn't want to stop nothing you can do will get her to stop until shes ready to
my mom once got really drunk and went absolutely crazy she choked me and kicked me in the head and the stomach i refused to talk to her for months and we've never had the same relationship but she doesn't want to stop so she won't
if you can't talk her into it she isn't going to stop until she wants to is basically what i'm saying
for your own safety because trust me even if you think that they'd never lay a hand on you there could be that one night where your proven wrong
so for your own safety if you can't talk her out of drinking i recommend staying in another family members house | My mom's a ******* *****! >.<? Ok since august i havent hungout with anyone all because she found out i had sex with my boyfriend! (yes im a teenager, people are gonna do that when they feel the times right)..So she's making this HUGE deal about it and im not allowed to even walk outside for 1 second unless im going to school or shes going to the grocery store! I have to stand right by her side and i cant do anything. I've been depressed over it and actually crying everynight. All my friends and other people can go hangout with people and girls can stay over at theyre boyfriends....hey smoke weed/get drunk all the time, i've never done any of that and plan on keeping it that way. My mom doesn't trust me and she never will, she's way too over protective and i cant stand it anymore..:'( I just don't know what to do, everytime i ask her if i can go to the mall she'll say yeah and something ****'s up..or we'll go and she stand beside me the whole ******* time!!! My little sister is 5 and has friends over all the time. There's no way i can get my mom to let some of that air outta her head and let me do stuff..i've tried talking to her about it but all we end up doing is screaming at eachother, what shes doing is only making me worse both emotionally and physically. :'( What should i do? | | She is your mom there is nothing you can do get over it. Yeah I understand the whole have sex when your a teenager thing start carrying condoms around to show her you will be responsible Im sure she doesn't want to end up raising your mistake. Not that a baby is a mistake but how old are you details honey. | My mom is a ******* *****! What should I do? I swear to god, I am on the brink of just stomping down my stairs and cursing her out and vent every little morsel of anger into some blunt curse word. I'm tired of how she's been acting! She seems to always be in a grumpy kind of mood, I barely ever have any laughing moments with her, she is so ******* biased! And lately she popped a vain for a stupid reason and took away the coca cola. Which is my favorite drink, then I asked for one and she said "You can have ONE for dinner, and I need you to put away the dishes, and get my mail, and go outside to the trunk and bring all the bags in." She has me do all this stuff day by day and she is still such a jerk to me. Infact, sometimes I will be watching TV in my living room, then my mom will get back from the store or something then I will turn off the TV and go upstairs because I dont want to put up with her.
I back talk sometimes, but only when she is being completely absurd and controlling. And on a side note, don't give me an answer like "SHES YOUR MOM AND SHE GIVES YOU ALL THAT STUFF AND YOU ARE JUST A BRAT" I've learned that lesson before, I apreciate how she takes care of me, but other then that she is just not the best person in my eyes.
The thing that is sending me over the edge is that she had the nerve to freak out over food and take my freedom to Coca Cola, now I barely get any. I'm really unsure on what to do | Once a month most women become EVIL and most men cannot defeat them. It could be that that's just the way she is but taking away someone's caffine is such an offence...
My mother tried taking away my Mt.Dew once. I have it hideen all over my room now.
Don't cuss her out. It'll just piss her off. |
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